Nice Guys Finish Last

October 25th, 2009 by admin

Nice guys finish last in almost every situation, simply because, to put it quite bluntly, they are too nice to the women they are interested in. This might sound rather peculiar to a lot of people, especially those who are fairly new or an experience to dating. However, it makes perfect sense when you think about it.

Firstly, being excessively nice all the time often makes you come across as insecure. It is as though you are trying to cover up something. If you are not being yourself, that is one of the most common reasons why women get put off.

If you constantly do everything that she wants and follower her around constantly complimenting her and buying her presence, then you are going to be what all your friends will probably call ‘under the thumb’. You will be turned into a laughing stock and people will start not to take you seriously, including all other women.

Women are not at all interested in men there don’t appear confident, and if you can’t come across as in control of your own destiny and take some pride in yourself, then they’re going to be turned off right away.

Keeping a degree of dignity about yourself and maintaining control of your situation will help to ensure a lasting relationship. Are some women might like to assert a huge amount of power over you, these relationships very rarely work for a number of reasons.

So, nice guys finish last but that doesn’t mean to say that you need to treat woman badly. It just means to say that you should start complimenting them constantly and things like this, since it sounds like a cliche and you completely lose credibility very quickly.

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