You Don’t Have to Go It By Yourself
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Best Selling Author , writes… …
Life Coaching for people with self-confidence or self-esteem issues is very valuable in answering this next question. Women seem to suffer mostly from self-esteem, sense of abandonment and worthiness issues. Life Coach Advice for Women is one way to solve this problem in life coaching. Anita asks: “Are some of us just destined to be alone”? Anita, since you responded to our survey concerning relationships and the Law of Attraction, I am going to assume you have been considering finding a relationship for yourself. There are many who decide to keep out of intimate relationships. And that isn’t necessarily the situation for someone who’s given up because they have continuously been unsuccessful. Nothing at all is wrong with wanting to be without an intimate relationship. Your life can be fulfilled and fantastic with any decision you end up with.
As long as you know you are deciding that instead of giving up out of frustration that you haven’t found the relationship of your dreams. You can have everything in a relationship and in your life.
If you could view yourself from the perspective of Source or your Inner Being, or the Universe, you would see a beautiful, magnificent, brilliant, connected consciousness. Then life starts to occur around us. Our oblivious parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, tell us from birth what to watch out for, warn us, caution us, and attempt to shelter us, effectively having us listen to their fears and projections of insecurity rather than listening to our own guidance systems. OK, I will grant you as simple new children we do need support. Fine. But soon following they learn to eat by themselves, self-awareness needs to be part of the training for the little ones.
Well-meaning parents desire to do the correct thing so they guide, caution, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only creates a level of insecurity and inability. The feeling of not-enoughness gets instilled at an early age.
Brain research now tells us that before the age of 7, we’re so open and receptive, we have no filtering abilities at all. We go around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever comes into our life experience. It is not a wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misguided, beliefs about an imperfect nature. By the time we’re 6 years old, we’ve listened to the word “NO” approximately 60,000 times. Watch out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, do not drop that. The recurring communication says you’re unworthy, you can’t trust you, you do not know what you are doing, and so on.
Our parents and elders were certainly well-meaning. They simply intended for our well-being. But you can see how easily we’ve been taught away from our inherent beauty and brilliance.
I suggest that you go easy on yourself and give yourself a chance. First off, it is not your fault. It’s not even the fault of your parents. They were programmed the same way too. You can end the perpetration of lower sense of self-worth on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have anything you wants.
Do your very best to lavish yourself love and self-acceptance. Treat yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe appreciates, Spirit admires you, and your Inner Being adores you. Why? Because you ARE perfect. And that IS the reality!
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