How to Cease Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men

November 25th, 2009 by admin

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist , writes… …

“I often tend to create a partner who is emotionally unavailable. What should I do to change that”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the main complaint I recurred from my long string of failed relationships. They were either emotionally inept, lived out of town or traveled all the time.

When you continue attracting unavailable lovers, my question to you is, “Is there an aspect of your life that is afraid to commit, or afraid to be transparent in a love relationship”? That may be hard to take in right now, but that is what I have found to be the situation most of the time.

As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also suggest that you get very clear about what you want. Get clear by making a list of the qualities you want in your perfect match.

You make the list for yourself so you can attain clarity concerning what it is you truly want. You’ll begin to realize where any weaknesses are in yourself as you create the list. You’ll see where you need to go to work on your level of creation or belief in the chance of attracting what you’re asking for.

To evoke the state of feeling happy expectancy, continue by asking yourself the question “Why do I desire this”? It is time to engage your imagination. When you answer this question, imagine all the fun things you’ll do together. Think of smiling, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Envision what it’ll be like to be with someone who’s romantic and loves to bring you flowers.

You create the list for you, and the Universe responds to your clarity – the undiluted intention and unresisted desire!

Most of us have been trained from childhood to accept what you get, it is not kosher to ask for anything, why can you not just be happy with what you have? – kind of like brainwashing. I say you ask for it all and continue creating yourself into the alignment of your affirmations.

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